Urologist

We got so much information and possibilities from the Urologist that it's hard to remember them all. Basically, Jr. appears to have what they call a 'double system kidney' on the left side, which means it has two parts. If it was just 'dilation' then it would probably resolve itself, but it's not and will most likely require surgery to fix once the exact nature of the problem is determined. It's not life or death and will not require emergency action at birth, just daily antibiotics to avoid infection. It will take a couple tests and probably a few months to diagnose the problem then prescribe the solution (he presented over 3-4 different things that could be wrong and each had a different solution). The nature of the problem will determine how invasive the surgery will have to be. Jr. will have to be monitored regularly until he's at least 5 years old.

As worried as we should probably be about this, it's a blessing to finally have an expert tell us exactly what to expect. Hopefully there will not be any more 'unknowns' after this.

The biggest thing I'm worried about is going through labor again. I really need to spend some more time meditating on it so I don't get anxiety attacks or anything when it comes again.

We found the doctor very informative. An instructor in one of our prenatal classes went on and on about how circumcision is a thing of the past and is completely unnecessary according to research. The specialist gave us a little insight into her statistics. Yes, only 1% of males ever get urinary tract infections (making it seem that circumcision doesn't really have an impact), but 95% OF THAT 1% are uncircumcised. Since our little Jr is going to be naturally prone to infections and problems in that department they recommend he get it done. Wow, I wish some people in teaching capacities would keep their personal opinions to themselves. A personal choice like that cannot apply to every circumstance.

That reminds me of a time that a former bishop of mine told a rather judgmental story (in sacrament, no less!) about seeing one of his former congregation buying birth control and how he could no longer chastise her because she wasn't in his ward anymore. How dare anyone make a judgment about someone's personal life, and then broadcast it in public. You never know what someone's situation is. We HAD to use it after my molar pregnancy to ensure I didn't get cancer, that's no one else's business, and if anyone had said anything I would have probably been a puddle of tears since I wanted a baby so bad. I truly hope that I practice tolerance and understanding, I would hate to know that I had hurt someone by passing judgment on them. And if I have I apologize.

The non-stress-tests continue twice a week (FOUR doctor appointments this week! Three next unless they induce), no problems so far. I've heard of and seen a few ladies get sent to labor & delivery based on their tests. A couple of them delivered! Apparently holiday stress can cause early delivery! I'm glad I have Ian to take the stress away.

I can't even believe Jr. might be here in a week. Incomprehensible.